Having spoiled kids is probably one of the nightmares that scare people off of having children. And it is one of the worst moments for parents to hear from others that their kids are “spoiled rotten” or that their kids are too spoiled that they’ll have a bad influence on others’ kids. This is why you need to recognize the early signs of your kids being spoiled or turning into spoiled brats.
1- Having a fit is very common and very often for them. This is actually how spoiled brats deal with others around them. They just yell and scream at the top of their lungs and everyone would bow to their will.
2- They don’t help with anything. They don’t offer to help. They don’t agree to help when you ask them either. They are used to thinking that all that matters is what they want and their own happiness and wishes, so why the hell would they help others.
3- They think that having something is best when it belongs to others in the first place. They might even have the same exact toy or something better compared to it, but they derive some pleasure from hurting others to get it.
4- They want others to share their stuff with them when they don’t want to share their own. Moreover, when trying to convince them (or rather threaten or pressure them) to share their stuff, they won’t yield.
5- They love public displays. Whenever you go out to shop for something, they order you around and want you to buy an endless list of things. When you refuse, the start screaming so loud that the audience complains. At the end, you buy what they want just to shut them up.