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TIPS TO OVERCOME FAILURE

SOME TIPS TO OVERCOME FAILURE

You might be initially overwhelmed by failure of a relationship, a project or any other goal, but when you accept your mistakes and acknowledge your disappointment, you will be able to move on. You can develop a new plan with the help of your realistic optimism, and remember that your long term goal is the ability to adapt and thrive. Consider each failure a chance to grow wiser and stronger. You may be overcome with despair and disappointment when you feel you have failed. Holding in your painful feelings can affect negatively your relationships, your health and future success. Notice each emotion you are going through, be it sadness, fear, shame or anger; this will help you work through it …

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TIPS TO OVERCOME FAILURE

MORE TIPS TO OVERCOME FAILURE, PART II

If you failed in a relationship, you might refuse to examine what went wrong or to date in fear of going through the pain of another breakup. You prefer inaction to protect yourself from the emotional pain of a breakup or rejection, but this also means you might be turning away from a possible great relationship, and you are missing out the fun of dating. Try discovering the positives of any situation even failure, this is called positive reframing. Contemplate different ways of describing the situation in which you feel you failed, for example you better say “I have not found work yet” instead of “I failed to find work”. State the situation without judgment and look for the best; …

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