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TIPS TO HELP YOU DEAL WITH CRITICISM

SOME TIPS TO HELP YOU DEAL WITH CRITICISM

It is never fun to hear criticism, be it from a well- meaning person or from your enemy. You can use criticism to be a better person if it is meant to be constructive, and if it is meant to harm you then shake it off like a bad habit. The following steps will help you deal with criticism: • You have to know the difference between constructive and destructive criticism; constructive criticism is meant to help you, while destructive criticism is intended to hurt you. You need to understand the intention of the person who is giving it; if it comes from a superior or a teacher, the chances are this person wants you to do better, but when …

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TIPS TO HELP YOU DEAL WITH CRITICISM

MORE TIPS TO HELP YOU DEAL WITH CRITICISM, PART II

Constructive criticism is intended to help you improve as a person and to guide you, not to make you feel inadequate and bring you down. If your teacher gives you a critical feedback on your paper, it is not because he thinks you are stupid, but because he thinks you have some work to do. If you find yourself always getting defensive, crying and feeling upset when you are given what is supposed to be a helpful feedback, then work on being less sensitive and start thickening your skin. Accept your flaws and work on being able to hear criticism that is meant to get you improved. When your boss sends you a terse email, he just wants you to …

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