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TIPS TO HELP YOU DEAL WITH A CONTROL FREAK

SOME TIPS TO HELP YOU DEAL WITH A CONTROL FREAK

It is never pleasant or easy to be around a control freak, be it an older sister who wants everything done her way or a bossy friend. At times you cannot escape the person and you need to learn how to cope so as not to end up pulling your hair out. Dealing with a control freak requires staying calm and avoiding the situation when you can. People who have control tendency seek to control others; they are terrified of failure and worried about not being respected. They distrust the ability of others to do what they ask of them; a control freak cannot trust anyone to do a better job than they will. The control freak likes to appear …

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SIGNS OF A CONTROL FREAK & HOW TO COPE

SIGNS OF A CONTROL FREAK & HOW TO COPE, PART II

A bossy or controlling person sounds like an uncompromising parent; they may use words like “do what I say, do it now” without asking nicely. Such person always tries to control you and situation making you feel childlike. This person may ignore your rights, skills and experiences, impressing their abilities over yours. A control freak tends to be in charge and to think they are entitled to boss others around; this makes them feel better about themselves. Their controlling tendencies are revealed through their manner of using power; they are disrespectful, pushy, arrogant and dictatorial. People who respect others under their guidance make good managers or leaders, and this includes directing by suggestion or example, trusting and authorizing you. Be …

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TIPS TO HELP YOU DEAL A CONTROL FREAK

MORE TIPS TO HELP YOU DEAL A CONTROL FREAK, PART III

Actually, you let the control freak wins when you let them inside your head. Remember that you are the rational one with reasonable expectations for what can and cannot be done; do not let the unreasonable desires of another person make you feel deficient in any way. It is important to get the controlling person to know that you will not tolerate being bossed around; the longer you accept it the more it becomes taken for granted and established. Talk to the controlling person privately to explain your concerns and how this controlling behavior is affecting you. It is important to behave patiently and calmly with the control freak, though you may feel like screaming on the inside. When it …

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